Everyday Gratitude: Scavenger Hunts for Kids AND Caregivers

One predominant theme during the month of November is always that of thankfulness, or gratitude. It is often viewed as a month of intended reflection; a time to slow down and think deeply about the good things we have in our lives. Annual practices, like the November “30 Days of Gratitude” Challenge, and ongoing mindfulness strategies, like keeping a Gratitude Journal, encourage us to consider small things that bring us joy.

Simply thinking about things for which we hold gratitude can make us happier. It can alleviate some of the stress we carry from day to day. It can boost our mental and physical health.

Here is a link where you can learn more about the benefits of practicing gratitude and different ways to get started in your practice: tinyurl.com/b25ruy5t. And, here is a video by Sesame Street in Communities that helps young children understand the meaning of “gratitude” — tinyurl.com/3krkc39v.

For fun, this month, we have created Gratitude Scavenger Hunts, for both kids and caregivers, to help remember some of the small things in our lives that bring us joy, that make us happy, and for which we hold gratitude.

CLICK HERE to access the “Attitude of Gratitude Scavenger Hunt – Just for Kids!”

CLICK HERE to access the “Attitude of Gratitude Scavenger Hunt – For Family Caregivers”

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Whitney Stohr is a Parent to Parent Coordinator at The Arc of Snohomish County. She is passionate about advocating for medically complex children and children with disabilities and their families. She is a mom and medical caregiver herself, who is energized by working closely with other parent/family caregivers. She lives with her three-year-old son Malachi and husband Jason in Lynnwood. Connect with her online at whitney@arcsno.org.

Dad & Caregiver: The Importance of Fathers as Family Caregivers

(And Resources to Help!)

This November, during National Family Caregivers Month, we recognize the many contributions of family caregivers in our communities, our state and across the nation.

Family caregivers are part of the “informal caregiving” sector, comprised of millions of Americans who provide caregiving services for a family member or loved one, but are not paid or formerly employed in this role. Family caregivers are a diverse group. A family caregiver may be a spouse who cares for their partner when illness hits. They may be an adult child who assists their aging parents by shopping for groceries, driving them to medical appointments or assisting with household chores and upkeep. A family caregiver may be an adult sibling or other close family member who support a loved one with a disability, who, while living independently, requires assistance with specific tasks. In the context of “family” caregiving, the caregiver may not actually have a familial relationship with their loved one; they may, instead, be a neighbor or dear friend. And, certainly, family caregivers include the parents of children with disabilities.

While caregiving can be incredibly rewarding, the stress of the responsibility also takes a toll on caregivers. Research finds that family caregivers are at increased risk of physical and mental health decline, likely associated with chronic stress, and often report feelings of depression and anxiety, overwhelm, and isolation. Finances and other close relationships may suffer as well.

In 2020, 53 million Americans provided unpaid care to an adult or child with medical needs or a disability. Parent-caregivers of children with developmental disabilities are included within this larger sector. While it is true that most primary caregivers are women, in recent years, fathers have taken on a larger share of caregiving responsibilities. This has led to more deliberate efforts to include fathers and other male caregivers in conversations about caregiving, parenting a child with a disability or chronic medical condition, self-care, support and connection, healthy relationships, and more.

The dominant image of a woman as the primary family caregiver can make it more difficult for men to connect with programs, services and support groups that include other male caregivers. It also reinforces gender norms (that are harmful to both men and women!), which can make it even harder for men to seek the help they need.

The Washington State Fathers Network plays a central role in connecting male family caregivers with support groups, resources and information, and learning opportunities. The network, which has chapters in counties across the state, supports men in their caregiving role, as dads and partners, and as individuals. The Snohomish County chapter of the Fathers Network meets twice monthly, in the evenings, and is led by Jake Murray, Parent/Family Coalition Coordinator at The Arc of Snohomish County. Contact Jake Murray at fathersnetwork@arcsno.org.

 Learn more at fathersnetwork.org.

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Programs and services supporting fathers and other male caregivers:

• Connecting Fathers Workgroup — Website: tinyurl.com/37w7jjzu
• Community Cafes — Website: tinyurl.com/3aa4cwbb
• Dads Appreciating Down Syndrome — Website: tinyurl.com/cumfu7v9
• Dads Connect — Website: tinyurl.com/2h3kkvb8
• Dads M.O.V.E. — Website: dadsmove.org
• Families of Color Seattle — Website: focseattle.org
• Puget Sound Dads Group — Facebook: facebook.com/PugetSoundDadsGroup/
• Washington State Fathers Network — Website: fathersnetwork.org

Additional resources & information for male caregivers:

• Annual Washington Fatherhood Summit — Interagency Fatherhood Council Washington — Link: tinyurl.com/62v5auwz
• Conscious Fathering — Parent Trust for Washington Children — Link: tinyurl.com/3dcz42y2
• Dads Who Have Children with Special Health Care Needs: Taking Care of Yourself — Washington State Fathers Network — Link: tinyurl.com/3k2tccrt
• “Man Enough to Care” Mini-Series — Caregiving Across Generations — Link: caringacross.org/manenough/
• Why We Need to Reevaluate These Harmful Caregiving Stereotypes — Caregiving Across Generations — Link: tinyurl.com/y4sedmp4

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Whitney Stohr is a Parent to Parent Coordinator at The Arc of Snohomish County. She is passionate about advocating for medically complex children and children with disabilities and their families. She is a mom and medical caregiver herself, who is energized by working closely with other parent/family caregivers. She lives with her three-year-old son Malachi and husband Jason in Lynnwood. Connect with her online at whitney@arcsno.org.

Hey, Family Caregivers! We’re Recognizing YOU this November!

November is National Family Caregivers Month!

In November, we take time to recognize the family caregivers who provide support to their loved ones, family members and friends, in communities across the country. It is an opportunity to raise awareness and gain knowledge about caregiving issues and what we can do to advocate for policy change and programs that support family caregivers.

Family caregivers are considered “informal caregivers” — that is, they are individuals who assist another person, who is often their spouse, child or other family member, with medical care or daily living activities, without receiving compensation for their services. In contrast, “formal caregivers” are those who are paid for their caregiving work, such as health aids or staff at long-term care facilities.

The number of family caregivers has increased significantly in recent years, jumping from 43.5 million Americans in 2015 to 53 million in 2020 (Source: AARP/NAC). The majority of family caregivers are women. Of those individuals, approximately 24% are providing care for more than one person. In Washington state, the number of family caregivers exceeds 850,000 individuals (Source: WA DSHS). Altogether, the economic benefit of services rendered by informal family caregivers is valued at well over $450 billion per year (Source: FCA).

There is no doubt that family caregivers have a profound impact on the lives of their loved ones and within their wider communities. The work of family caregivers should be recognized and honored, not only in the month of November, but throughout the year.

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However, the positive impact and benefit of providing care to a family member does not erase the challenges of informal caregiving. Statistics show that family caregivers often struggle with the mental, physical and financial impact of providing unpaid care. Many report declining health, chronic medical conditions or disabilities of their own, depression and anxiety, stress and overwork (Sources: ACL, CDC, FCA). A significant percentage of family caregivers experience difficulty managing their job and caregiver responsibilities, and many report at least one financial impact directly resulting from caregiving (Source: AARP/NAC).

So, perhaps, more than simply recognizing the contributions and support system created by family caregivers, it is critical to raise awareness about the challenges of caregiving and the programs and policies that are needed to support the millions of Americans who, in turn, are there for their loved ones.

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Additional information about the informal/family caregiving sector:

• Caregiving in the U.S. 2020 — National Alliance for Caregiver, in partnership with AARP — Link: com/bcn5jbz4. (Webpage includes recent reports on caregiving with specific statistics on different caregiver demographics)
• Long-Term Services and Supports and Family Caregiver — AARP Public Policy Institute — Link: com/73p9nta8. (Webpage includes a wide selection of caregiving research, publications and other resources)
• 10 Tips for Family Caregivers — Caregiver Action Network (CAN) — Link: com/53h5rybj.

Information about National Family Caregivers Month and awareness raising:

• National Family Caregivers Month — U.S. HHS Administration for Community Living — Link: com/5x3cr9ba. (Information about NFCM and popular hashtags and social media graphics available to raise awareness)
• National Family Caregivers Month - #CaregiverAND — Caregiver Action Network (CAN) — Link: com/4u475dbv.

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Whitney Stohr is a Parent to Parent Coordinator at The Arc of Snohomish County. She is passionate about advocating for medically complex children and children with disabilities and their families. She is a mom and medical caregiver herself, who is energized by working closely with other parent/family caregivers. She lives with her three-year-old son Malachi and husband Jason in Lynnwood. Connect with her online at whitney@arcsno.org.

Two Local Walks Support the Medical Community in a BIG Way!

In the month of October, our county’s expansive community of individuals with disabilities, parents and family members, friends and loved ones, recognized both Disability History & Awareness Month and National Disability Employment Awareness Month, as well as National Down Syndrome Awareness Month and Spina Bifida Awareness Month. We also acknowledged Mental Illness Awareness Week (Oct. 3­-9) and World Cerebral Palsy Day (Oct. 6). Recognition months, weeks and days are a fantastic opportunity to raise awareness about important issues, policies and programs impacting our communities.

Two groups in particular deserve a huge, congratulatory (virtual) high-five for the awareness raising, community advocacy and outreach accomplished through their annual walk/run events in October 2021.

The Seattle WALK to END Hydrocephalus is a 5K run/walk held at Magnuson Park in Seattle. The walk brings together the regional community of people living with Hydrocephalus, their families, friends and caregivers, to connect, raise awareness and support the Hydrocephalus Association, a national advocacy organization.

Hydrocephalus is a neurological condition caused by an over-accumulation of cerebrospinal fluid in the ventricles of the brain. This build-up of fluid causes pressure on the brain, which can be fatal if untreated. Hydrocephalus affects over 1 million Americans, of all ages, due to a variety of causes. There is no cure for hydrocephalus, and the current treatment involves (often multiple) brain surgeries to ensure that the cerebrospinal fluid is able to drain from inside the brain. Learn more about Hydrocephalus at hydroassoc.org.

Every year, more than 14,000 people participate in a WALK to End Hydrocephalus at over 40 locations across the United States. The Seattle WALK is one of the largest of these events. Click here to view highlights from the 2021 event.

The 25th Annual Puget Sound Buddy Walk was held on October 10th at Downtown Bellevue Park. The annual event is organized by the Down Syndrome Community of Puget Sound.

Down syndrome occurs when an individual is born with an extra copy of chromosome 21. Down syndrome is the most common chromosomal condition. In the United States, one in every ~700 babies is born with Down syndrome. Learn more at ndss.org.

The National Buddy Walk® program was founded in 1995 by the National Down Syndrome Society as a way to celebrate Down Syndrome Awareness. Today, over 300,000 people participate in more than 250 Buddy Walks worldwide. The event is now, not only a public awareness program, but also an advocacy event for the Down syndrome community. The local Buddy Walk is the largest event of the year for the Down Syndrome Community of Puget Sound, a nonprofit organization working to empower people with Down syndrome and their families through education, outreach and community building programs.

Does your medical community or diagnosis-specific organization hold an annual walk/run to raise awareness? We would love to know more about it? Share with us at whitney@arcsno.org.

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Whitney Stohr is a Parent to Parent Coordinator at The Arc of Snohomish County. She is passionate about advocating for medically complex children and children with disabilities, and their families. She is a mom and medical caregiver herself, who is energized by working closely with other parent/family caregivers. She lives with her three-year-old son Malachi and husband Jason in Lynnwood. Connect with her online at whitney@arcsno.org.